In a normal situation dealing with ordinary people, if someone makes a mistake and refuse to apologize that is usually interpreted as being impudent,careless... a disgrace to the humanity manners and consciousness.
however the more time i spend thinking it over the more i realize it's not that simple of a deal,you see there are far too complex layers in the human souls that you probably can't see unless you experience first hand,and even when you do you still wont understand the full extent of where it could lead.
you see, there is another alternative that I've come to see, at least grasp the concept of , forgiveness is not always asked for because it involves two phases that i know of... the first lies in the regret,for a person to regret what they did whatever it may be.
the second phase and the more crucial one is the one directly concerned for forgiveness, basically every human in my opinion have two authorities inside him,a judgmental character,the king and ruler of the body, the one who regards the actions being made, a good king would normally be able to make it so that nothing would go wrong...however some of the time or with some people the king just sits there,a mistake comes to be and yet don't interfere with it at the moment
now comes the judgment time,you stand up before yourself,aware of your mistake,aware of the gravity of your misdeeds,the upcoming step is either forgiveness or the disappearance of that element....and depending on that you either ask others for forgiveness or not, if you cannot forgive your own self not only you wont ask others for forgiveness,you wont accept it either, a lifetime of torment is what awaits that person until someone breaks them free from that cursed world
So what i mean to say is sometimes those who don't ask for forgiveness not only are they human but they are perhaps too much of a human, humanity has many sides of consideration, you have to be aware of your roles and your obligations....but also another side that we sometimes lack is the reminder,that little note reminding us that we are humans,we make mistakes.... but I'd like to think that we hide that note on perpous so as not to keep repeating the same mistake over and over or make countless mistakes claiming... i am human, because humans are not a mistake...they are not supposed to make mistakes frequently, but once in a while they do make mistakes...big ones and small ones, all together as they live.
So what is the cure,are those who've confined their own souls into the dungeons seeking punishment and running away from salvation will last like this, or is there is a way for them to break free, well there is one way that i am aware of...a break point
the simplest way to break such a strong resolve is by proving it wrong, you are not breaking the person though ^^ please no one comes over and says"are you asking us to make them lose faith in what they do", no not at all...but what you need to do is to be strict,it's close to the love of a parent, a parent would discipline his child, even blame them and let them deal with the consequences with their actions directly...but at the end of the day they will go and pay the dues for their children,they will sell what they hold on dear just to get them back....and yet they wont talk to them unless they realize why was their decision bad in the first place
the same way, if that person wont forgive their own souls for their actions,you simply respect that wish for a while,but ignore it...if they don't want to be rescued ^^ rescue them and ignore all their requests regarding not to.....and let them know, even if you don't forgive yourself, even if we wont forgive you,you are still alive and you are among us, never cast away someone you once trusted unless there is no way around it...
well that's it for today,perhaps I'd go on later on,bbye for now everyone =D wonder if anyone ever reads this blog to start with
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