Hugging is the physical equivalent of holding on to someone, so my advice to you if you want to get married or if you have doubts if you are in love with a certain person is this. think of yourself in your most vulnerable moments , when you are leaving somewhere , forgetting someone, or closing our a chapter in your life , now think about how much you want to hold that person, the longer you want to keep the hug and tighten it , that is how much you need that person in your life .
Humans are very fragile creatures even if they pretend to be otherwise , we cry easily and feel the pain even more easy. But just as much we can cling to small things . In a goodbye , when you know everyone will have to walk a different path or even opposites , when you know you cannot be with that person or see them for a very long time . all you really wish for is to see them look back to you while walking away once , even a hesitant look would suffice. It will get you warm and comfort you, it will make you know that when you are closing out this chapter of your life , someone still has a copy of that page , you did not read it alone, it wasn't a dream, it was not an illusion, even if the whole world did not believe it , it still held meaning.
Humans are very fragile creatures even if they pretend to be otherwise , we cry easily and feel the pain even more easy. But just as much we can cling to small things . In a goodbye , when you know everyone will have to walk a different path or even opposites , when you know you cannot be with that person or see them for a very long time . all you really wish for is to see them look back to you while walking away once , even a hesitant look would suffice. It will get you warm and comfort you, it will make you know that when you are closing out this chapter of your life , someone still has a copy of that page , you did not read it alone, it wasn't a dream, it was not an illusion, even if the whole world did not believe it , it still held meaning.
